Nowadays unstable love relations have become very common. This is our advise to tackle.
Original Email Received
I love and believed him a lot, but went wrong by doubting him. I asked him apologymany a times. But he’s just sticked to it n not understanding the situation why i did? what should i do? How should i resolve? He’s not ready to listen anything. U am trying from 6 months. pls help. pls.
Email response + Guidance
To: shweta and everyone reading From: Prajapati BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa-Vidhalaya (Godly Spiritual University)
1. Firstly, it is highly recommended for you to attend 7 days Rajyoga course at your nearest Brahma Kumaris Center. This will answer all your questions about your relationships and help you a lot to solve everything.
7 days course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course
2. While and After attending the course, make it a routine to Meditate atleast twice a day.
Timing: morning between 4 am to 5 am and evening between 6:30 to 7:30
Meditation is a way to connect God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shiv baba. Baba means – father)
Do you know?
God, the supreme father of all souls has come to earth. He is your father and calling you to meet Him. He is your only companion and partner who will never leave your hand. Visit your nearest Brahma Kumaris center to know God and his divine deeds.
Once you will establish a connection with God, all your questions including the true definition of love, trust , peace will be answered. And after all when you’ve God with you, who else you need more?
It is a promise all your worries will vanish the moment you’ll know God.
Aaj ki Gyan Murli se Ek Kavita – 12 April 2019. आज की मुरली से कविता. This is poem from today’s baba’s murli. To access old murli poems and more, visit the Daily Murli Poems page. Or Listen Audio Murli (Hindi & English) on our page: Daily Gyan Murli
We received an email written by a sister who is already in Gyan. They discussed about their personal family situation where they are trying their best to walk in the path of Shrimat. Here they asked for some advice to overcome or resolve the opposition for Gyan in family.
It is known that such things will happen. Some will oppose. But with time, majority has become like minded with Baba’s shrimat. Now, many comes to find peace and they get it at centres or by RajYog. Then they say – ‘Brahma Kumari are doing good for the world.’
But our actual aim is to GIVE THE KNOWLEDGE that we are learning from Shiv baba. So this remains to be done.
Shrimat is not to leave the family. There is a reason why this is said. If you simply leave, then the Karmic account still remains. First finish the accounts and then leave.
HOW?
Yog bal – With the constant yog with Supreme soul, we can end our past karmic bondages. Soul becomes pure. Yaad is major subject.
1. You are a Purusarthi soul. Your aim is to become like Shri Lakshmi and Shri Narayan. This means to emerge our original virtues of Peace, Purity, Love and Bliss.
2. Yaad with the Supreme soul (Shiv baba) makes the Souls pure from the past life karmas. This purification is a part of emerging the original nature.
3. Murli is the source of knowledge. Yes. With that Murli is also a source of Shiv baba’s talking with us children. Think. We have prayed and prayed for thousand years (since copper age) to meet and know God. Now he himself has come to meet and talk with us. To teach us and make us equal to himself.
4. You are one of those SPECIAL souls who came early in World drama. You are a Satyugi Soul, aren’t you? As an ancestor, you are loving, caring and forgiving to souls who came after you. You are their ancestor. Hence your regard is to love them. Care them. Empower them.
**** Advice ****
1. Wake up early morning and sit for about 15 mins for Swamaan Abhyas with these guided commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan
2. Practice 5 forms of Soul (Panch Swaroop). Here below are some useful links
An email as to report an activity going on a BK centre – A Sister was taking money in the name of Brahma Kumaris and events management. Here was our response and guidance for the asker and his family who is a faithful child of Shiv baba, a regular godly student.
Original Email Received in Feb 2019
Dear concern
This is for your kind information that my mother used to go in local om shanti center in near by area from last 1yr, and feel like those Didi’s are available in the center ,force almost everyone to give more then required money to them for going to mount Abu or any near by City like they are going to gurgaon tomorrow i.e. 20/9/2018 for janki Dadi satsang, they almost made my mother cry for not agreeing to give dakshina amount of RS. 500 exactly in addition to convince, and daily they make people feel insulted by any of the reasons.
I just want to know is it necessary to give dakshina exactly you want, is this thing is in policy of brahma kumaris?
I will let you know the complete address once get any revert.
Regards!
Our Email Response
Dear Divine Brother/Sister
Your letter is received by us. You are received.
No Gaurav, it is not permitted by Shiv baba to demand money, not even a single rupee for any cause. It is law within our family of Brahma Kumari and Kumar, to arrange money for service by ourself. We never should ask anyone from outside for money. They may give a room for daily murli class.
Money should not be asked. But if those sisters at any centre are doing this, they are doing a GREAT disservice in Yagya. They are unaware of God has come. They should and will be punished. While you or me are not a judge to announce the judgement. There are many things we do not know – Why do a good soul does an inaccurate karma? There must be a reason. But surely now as we have knowledge of both good and bad, we must choose the good always. The purpose of this knowledge given by the God father (Shiv baba) is also to make us pure and divine souls, which we were initially.
All souls are pure and perfect when they first come into the corporeal world (to play their part in World Drama). Then they do karma and according to their karma is decided their next birth. No one goes back until the end of the cycle. Now is that great time of ”transformation”
You wish to know more, please read the History page to know the complete history and hence you wil know the truth and the life of a true Brahma Kumari: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history
Also know that there are very very few complaints like this. Because mostly we know that all surrendered sisters (or say most of them) are selflessly serving.
But yet, it is certainly possible that such a wrong person may have entered the centre who is going against the Shrimat.
I surely know the present condition of some Baba’s centres. Some souls are being living at centres but not following the Shrimat of Shiv Baba (God). But do you know more? Only 5% of such souls exist. 90 to 95% are making efforts according to the shrimat by their own extent – to transform the self first and then guide brothers and sisters.
Here is an example you may know – BK Shivani:
Above is a video clip which is from Delhi where this spiritual meeting was organised and this is a speech from bk shivani.
So as said, a majority of souls are good. Only a few are so who are going on wrong path against the shrimat. They will surely suffer in the end. You DO NOT need to see them. Do not look to them. Do not go near them.
Your attention is and should be towards God, our eternal father who has come here and teaching us this knowledge. This is called Murli.
A letter received in email to get information about Accommodation procedure for Mount Abu (madhuban) centre. They wanted to come with family for a few days. Here is our response and guidance.
Original Email Received
I alongwith my three family members have made a programme to visit Barahamkumari’s Ashram and other monuments at Mount Abu. I, therefore, request to kindly book two rooms at the Ashram or tell me the procedure to do this myself.
I shall be grateful to have your cooperation in this regard.
You are welcome to visit the centre (Madhuban) and take the course also. You may also do 2 or 3 days Bhatti (you will know when you come here and ask someone). However the ashram is NOT for anyone. It is only for regular Godly students. But you can come and know if a room is available. The 7 day course is for everyone new – you can come with family.
For this, you can come anytime. Doors are always open. However, because you are not a member of the brahman family (you are not surrendered at a BK centre), you have to arrange the stay. There are many hotels nearby.
However, if you and your family wish to take the course, ask someone and you may be allowed to live in ashram also. There are strict Guidelines for those who wish to stay in madhuban. You must follow the below procedure.
Shiv Baba is with everyone. In bhakti marg also it is remembered and praised that God is blissful with all. But you have to take the 1st step. Come and know the essence of all Godly knowledge through the 7 days course and as this recognition occurs in mind, you will know that God (Shiv) has come.
It is possible that Shiv baba called you to his home (madhuban). Then you don’t need to worry for anything. Come with all your heart. As the Accommodation guidelines are given, do call Shantivan and ask them to book you 2 rooms.
Aaj ki Gyan Murli se Ek Kavita – 6 April 2019. आज की मुरली से कविता. This is poem from today’s baba’s murli. To access old murli poems and more, visit the Daily Murli Poems page. Or Listen Audio Murli (Hindi & English) on our page: Daily Gyan Murli
This is the advise given to change some habits and transform self from negative to positive being. Here is our guided solution.
Original Email Received
Didi hm bhut negative rhte h bhut sensitive h all time rote rhte h bhut presan rhti hu mujhse pdai nhi hoti h .yad krti hu yad nhi hota bhul jati hu .concetret nhi kr pati hu .khud se hi presan rhti hu .sath me bhut si bimariya bhi ho gyi.bhut aalsi hu kuchh nhi hota .hmesa motivation ke liye vidio dekhti hu PR do minute rhta h fir vhi life ho jati h.socied ka khyal aata h life bilkul achhi nhi lgti.khus hona chahti hu pdna chahti hu PR kuchh nhi kr path SB try kiya PR bs do minute rhta h fir vhi .mai abhi bhut chhoti hu abhi se mujhe apni life asi lgti h…
Email Response + Guidance
To: Kiran ji and everyone reading thisFrom: Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwavidhyalaya (Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University)
Omshanti,
1. First of all you must attend 7 days Rajyoga meditation course either online or at your nearest brahma kumaris center (recommended). All your worries will vanish at this step only as you will know the purpose of your life.
2. Take care of your food and water intake. This is because whatever we eat we become.
b) Charge Water everyday during amritvela (between 2 am to 4 am) or in evening (between 6:30 to 7:30) and drink this water. Pick any hour to do this as you feel comfortable with but amritvela is most recommended.
Do this for 21 days. It has shown magical results.
3. Your condition as you discussed is not unique. Almost everyone go through this phase in life. It is because of the effect of our bad past karmas and karmic accounts that are pulling us towards them.. visit this link to know how to settle karmic debts- (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-finish-karmic-account)
Karmic accounts can be settled through meditation or yog..
5. Daily when you wake up in morning say to yourself (in mind by closing eyes) these five swamans. Don’t say just for sake of saying but feel deep inside. This will change your personality completely. Recall these swamans throughout the day many times.
This is the advise given to all the parents who resist the decision of their children to marry according to their choices in other caste. What is best to be done? Here is the step by step spiritual healing. And a way to find peace in the parents – child relationship.
Original Email received from you
Hi Didi, I have a question.
I am a very conservative and traditional hindu. I come from a family where we practiced a lot of pooja and katha at home. Both my kids are atheist. They are oppose to marrying in the same faith. For them love is the priority and they can settle with other races. They both are dating from other races. Me, being so religious and conservative it really bothers me. What can I tell myself so I get peace or how can I handle this situation?
Your email is received and read. Here is our response and advice for you.
First of all we must clear our minds with the very true fact that ‘Our Karma leads us to our Destiny’. No matter what we plan, decide, or foresee but our past karma will reap what we have sown.. So everyone we meet through the journey of our lives are the product of our Karmic Accounts.
Only a Gyani and Yogi have the power to turn their Destiny because they have Shivbaba and power of Yog. But there’s an exception to this too i.e the Gyan of Drama.. what is fixed in Drama will happen.
As far as the choices of your children are considered.. You must keep this in your mind that their (your children’s) karmic accounts will pull them to the path of settlement.. So be it a marriage in other caste or whatsoever like that. You are here powerless. You can’t control anyone but yourself.. you can only control and change the line of your own thoughts.. You can’t interfere in anyone else’s Karmic Accounts.
We understand, as you said, you belong to conservative Hindu background and it becomes difficult to accept leave alone inter caste marriages but even love marriages.
To find more guidance, we advice you to search our forum (this forum) using the search box – search for related posts that will further guide you.
You must understand and accept lovingly everyone because we are all are souls. Every soul in the world are child of one God ( incorporeal God Shiva). So please don’t tangle yourself with the thoughts that you are very religious, belong to upper/lower/middle hindu class etc.. These are the titles of body.
Your ‘to be daughter in law or son in law from other caste’ are a Soul. And if your children choose to marry them – it is their Karmic Accounts pulling them.. and at the end parents want their children to be happy.. So you should not go against your kids. Let them choose.
We understand, there are a lot of insecurities related with inter-caste marriages-
1. Culture and upbringing of other soul
2. Food habits (veg/non veg)
3. Less or no knowledge of family’s background
4. No power to control an adverse situation, as is no common relative/intermediary, in case of some issues
5. For the male family, no or less dowry (though dowry system is banned) & is the wife of adjusting nature or not?
6. For females, if other family is safe for her and is accepting her?
7. What other people in our society say or think or react about this?
They may be other reason bothering you or some of these.
Visit: Day to Day timetable to learn about our lifestyle which you can also adopt and see the transformation in life.
Well marriages in same caste are also no guarantee nowadays because it is kaliyug, the end period of Drama.. What is bound to happen will happen..
I’ve personally seen many same caste marriages failing and leading to divorce.
If other family’s parents are against the marriage then you should counsel your kids. But If everyone is okay with it then you can let it.
But the need of the hour, for now, is to be Happy and Content. You must not disturb your state of mind. You are a Soul, consider yourself a Soul and accept lovingly everyone who is going to be part of your family.
Also, You also should visit brahma kumaris center and take the 7 days free rajyoga meditation course.. you’ll feel powerful about dealing with your own self and others…
In present time, many students are falling in the chapters of love. On one hand they have lots of burden of education and hence their parents wish them to study properly and get good marks and live a good life. Due to stress, some children may take help of chatting with friends so as to lighten their mind. But if they engage more time on phone, it is n good for anything. Here is such case where 3 things are together – Study, parents and love. Definitely something is to happen. Here is our guidance for anyone with similar situation.
Original Email Received
I am a 12th CBSE board student and I am from Almora, Uttarakhand. I have recently given my board exams and feel nervous and anxious about results. My parents are caring but I feel irritated as they always keep an eye on me and also love a guy who is also in 12th but from different school. We love each other and want to spend our time together. So it’s always through phone we get connected via calls and chats and my parents always scold me for being addicted to phone. When I am depressed or sad just by talking to him I find peace. He is understanding and loveable. Please guide me what to do in these situations. I always fight with my parents and even don’t study. I am facing concentration problems, anxiety, future worries, nervousness and fear. Please do guide me.
This is the response to your email received on 18 March. Firstly we are responding to your email now because of man other services to do.
It is understood that because of burden of study and parents are strict about this – you are feeling alone sometimes and thus get attached to phone or to talk with someone to find peace. ok.
First –> Parents are the best well-wisher of children. There is no equivalence to the parents. But because of present environment, parent’s job related tensions and children’s burden of study (due to education system) – parents also fail to understand that life is to live – to enjoy every moment – not to live in tension of future -which is unknown and unpredictable. There is a saying ‘Do your best and become a carefree emperor.” You can only do your best when you are in your best stage – complete peace, love and joyful stage. Maybe every virtue together is difficult to achieve, so start one by one. ”I am a peaceful Soul.” then practice – ”I am a pure and stable soul” and so. Here are commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan (save the link)
Tomorrow will come then we will see – why to waste the moment we have NOW. The meaning, however, is not that you should not study – but study with love for study – with curiosity and joy of learning. Enjoy what you do. And then you will do what you enjoy. Understood?
First enjoy the hard work and then naturally enjoy its good result.
Second –> This is not the right age to get in love. However, friendship is ok. Even if someone is sweet from outside, you do not know from inside. We have experience as there come many emails regularly of cheating of their lover, hurt, etc. So best is to concentrate on life. Still – it is good to talk with friends just to feel comfort – about 1 hour per day maximum.
This below 2 articles is for both – You and your Parents. Do read and let them also.
Our journey of Self transformation goes through rise and fall. Sometimes you may feel demotivated towards your spiritual goal. So here is our uplifting guidance for you and everyone who needs. So SHARE this special article/post.
Original Email Received
I’m working on me, understanding and crossing life situations with spiritual knowledge. I intend to remove my negative Sanskars and use original ones only. I must say I’m much successful in eliminating high intensity reaction I used earlier. There still comes atleast one situation in a day I fail in my mission and register either some hurt inside not saying it out and rarely a mild argument or entangling. This demotivates me sometimes. Help me in removing that rare time situation in day too so I emerge inner beauty completely forever.
Our Email Response + Guidance
To: Everyone reading this
From: On behalf of Shiv Baba
Good morning
You intend to remove weaknesses. That you said you have success in removing many weakness. This is a guidance letter for you. Please read with total ATTENTION.
In essence, the way of self transformation is Shiv baba’s Murli. So listen the murli everyday and take notes. Work on that. See what baba explained today – what Purusharth is needed to be done. Even my personal experience says – Murli gives answer to all our questions.
You can also follow below points:
1. It is very easy to give up big weaknesses which are clearly visible. But to remove even those small weaknesses and mistakes – requires a ”divine intellect”. How can one get a divine intellect? – through study of the divine knowledge (murli) and Yog (to remember the father shiv baba). Refer: What is Gyan Murli
2. What we do in early morning (our spiritual stage) stays for a long time. So wake up for Yog in morning – sit and practice on Swamaan also. Here are commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan
3. Do GOOD KARMA everyday. This is a way everyone can and should follow. Do a karma everyday that reflects your original nature (peace, purity, love, bliss). Empower another soul/s or guide them also towards the supreme soul. Help someone with good thoughts (sakash or dhristi), words or action.
What will this do for you?
This will create a sense of greatness within you – this will sit on your intellect now and every time you are going wrong or are in a difficult situation where let’s say you face something – this image of yourself (as a divine soul, a helper, a lover and an enjoyer (bliss)) shall emerge and this feeling will take you out of ANY situation. So it is simply said that YOUR GOOD KARMA will help you in future. Such deep is the law. You do good, you get good.
4. Today telling you this secret – Soul acts out in feelings. Feelings however have no language – feeling are mainly divided in 2 parts:
1. Love (attraction) 2. hate (repulsion).
One can either attract something or repel. However, you are feeling within shall be reflected in action. So the feelings should be ‘pure’ for all souls. Feelings are translated into thoughts -> into words. Our words can empower a needful soul and also can defeat a needful soul. Just as these written words are empowerment for you.
** Conclusion **
Check and Change
We all are in a journey of self transformation in which there is always a need to check our weakness and hence to change – baba says ”look yourself in a mirror”. Not in a physical mirrir, but in the mirror of intellect. Look your chalan (manners). Are you acting out thinking yourself as a soul? If no, then the action is not accurate. Soul consciousness is the key to all treasures.