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Small Hindi Guide on Parenting for all Parents. सभी माता पिता के लिए आज के समय अनुसार गाइडेंस – अपने बच्चो की संभाल कैसे करे? माता पिता और बच्चे का सम्बन्ध कैसा होना चाहिए? ऐसा होना चाहिए। By Mind Management team.

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‍‍‍बच्चे और माता-पिता के बीच रिलेशनशिप कैसा होना चाहिये? अगर आप भी इस बारे में जानना चाहते है, तो नीचे बताएगे कुछ टिप्स आपके बहुत काम आएंगे…

* हेल्दी रिलेशनशिप से बनेगी बच्चे की हेल्थ *

आजकल कॉम्पिटिशन इतना बढ़ गया है कि हर माता-पिता अपने बच्चे को बेस्ट देने की कोशिश करते हैं। बच्चा अच्छे से पढ़-लिख जाये, इसलिए सबसे अच्छे स्कूल में भेजने की कोशिश करते हैं। वह यह उम्मीद करते हैं कि बच्चा स्कूल से ज्ञान के साथ-साथ अच्छा व्यव्हार भी सीखेगा। लेकिन हाल ही में हुई एक रिसर्च की माने, तो बच्चे का अच्छी तरह से पालन-पोषण, उसे अच्छे स्कूल में भेजने से ज़्यादा ज़रूरी है। आमतौर पर सभी स्कूल एक जैसे होते हैं और अपने हर छात्र पर बराबर ध्यान देते हैं। लेकिन जिन बच्चों के माता-पिता उनका होमवर्क करने में मदद करते हैं, पढ़ाई की अहमियत समझते हैं और बच्चे के सभी स्कूल ईवेंट्स अटेंड करते हैं, उनके बच्चे दूसरे बच्चों की तुलना में बेहतर प्रदर्शन करते हैं।

‍‍‍- अच्छा पेरेंट-चाइल्ड रिलेशनशिप है ज़रूरी –

बच्चे और उसके पेरेंट के बीच का रिश्ता सबसे अच्छा और ज़रूरी बंधन होता है। यह रिश्ता बच्चे की पर्सनेलिटी, उसके व्यवहार और पसंद की नींव डालता है। यही से उसका शारीरिक, मानसिक और भावनात्मक स्वास्थ्य का विकास होता है। (video) How to understand your child?

अगर बच्चे का माता-पिता के साथ रिश्ता अच्छा हो तो, उसके कई फायदे होते हैं। जैसे-

– जीवन में दूसरे लोगों से भी अच्छा रिश्ता बनना।

– मुश्किल परिस्थिति में अपनी भावनाओं पर काबू रखना।

– बच्चे के मानसिक, भावनात्मक और भाषा का विकास होना।

– बच्चे का आशावादी और आत्मविश्वास से पूर्ण होना।

– बेहतर सोशल और अकैडमिक स्किल्स होना।

आप चाहे कितने भी बिज़ी हो, लेकिन अपने बच्चे के लिए समय ज़रूर निकालें। जैसे-जैसे आपके बच्चे की उम्र बढ़े तो, आप अपने पेरेंटिंग स्टाइल को भी बदल दें। बच्चे की उम्र कुछ भी हो, उससे हमेशा प्यार से बात करें और गर्मजोशी दिखाएं। उनको बातों-बातों में प्यार से यह समझाये कि आप उनसे क्या उम्मीद रखते हैं और उन्हें आगे का रास्ता दिखाये। बच्चा जो कुछ भी कहें, उसे ध्यान से सुनें और उसके प्रति हर परिस्थिति में हमदर्दी दिखाये। कोई भी समस्या हो, उसे हल करने में उसकी मदद करें। जब आप अपने बच्चे के साथ कोई भी समस्या को हल करेंगे, तो वह आपको देखकर सीखेगा कि किसी भी मुश्किल हालात में कैसा व्यवहार करना चाहिए।

अपने बच्चे की छोटी-छोटी बातों पर ध्यान देकर आप उसके करीब आ सकते हैं और उसके जीवन का सबसे अच्छा दोस्त बन सकते हैं।

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How to Help Someone?

If someone you love is suffering from a bad time or an addiction, here is a GOOD WAY to help them – both spiritually and emotionally. Here, in this case, the writer helped a friend who was in addiction and didn’t return the money he had burrowed. So we have explained here the BEST way to judge properly helping someone without getting cheated.

Original Email Received in March 2019

OM SHANTI. I do follow lot of preachings by sister shivani and the amazing part is it all worked for me. However,now I am very much confused whatever is going on in my life.

According to sister Shivani preachings, your thoughts should be pure…it’s not what you say,matter is what you think and how you think. You have to transform your vibrations.

So,This story is about 2 years ago, I had a friend group with whom I had huge fight,bad memories. Now that person is again coming back in my life but with the same intention. After like 2 yrs, now I have moved on in my life, I explained that person everything but he is still holding that old energies. I don’t know what to do ? He is suffering from addiction.

Another story is :
One of my friend is in drug addiction and so I tried helping that person. After 7 months that guy again came back called me and said, I am in a big problem, “ the story he told me, was He is getting deported back to India and he needs some money. I am still in a struggling period, So I said as long as you return it, I will help you. He said his best friend will return it and so I gave him. No one ever returned me the money. I thought that’s ok…may be he needed so that’s why…I left that…
Want to know,why it’s happening,
Please help me out….I want to be on right track want to further grow.

Our Email Response + Guidance

To: Aayushi & Everyone reading this
From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University)
Topic: How to help someone

This is the response to your email letter received on 4 March 2019.

It can be understood that since you sent ‘love’ vibrations with an intention to change their sanskar – instead of being changed, they are attracted to you. You see love creates attraction. There are only 2 forces in life that puts you into action (karma), they are – love or fear.
Either you can love, or fear.

God teaches us to become aloof (detached) while doing our responsibilities. It is also not favourable to connect your intellect with someone who is in connection with 5 vices. Connect your intellect with God (the Supreme soul), who is full of peace, purity, powers and love.

In this case, with a good intention, you helped someone. That is not bad. But better was to first inquire if they really need money for the spoken purpose, or they are going to use for a bad purpose. Money was yours. If they use it for a wrong purpose, you are participating in that karma indirectly. Money is earned by hard work.

It is right to help those in need, but first must check if they are REALLY in need and in How much need and When can they return the money. God says – ”Become Righteous”.

Righteous means – one who does the ”right” karma – not good, not bad. Only what is best. How can we know which is the best karma? It is simple ->

”The karma which keeps your mind stable and in order within and which gives peace, stability and happiness to others around – is the righteous karma” Refer to Law of Karma – Way of Living

In your case, your karma gave ‘happiness’ to that soul. But did it gave you inner peace, stability or to them? No. Why?? Because you didn’t know if the money will be returned or for what purpose will it be used…
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Coming to the question if how can you help overcome the wrong habits (smoking, etc) – this is in their hands. Everyone knows that this is very bad for our body. Then also they continue.! So there must be an ”awakening” in them to realise and then only can they transform. The good way is this ->

As he comes in contact – forward him the Awakening series on ”addiction” and say this is helpful to you. This series is enough for anyone to come in the right path. You don’t need to worry.

Series on Addiction -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-08.htm

~~~ FOR YOU ~~~

Already you are in the path of Self-transformation and connected with Awakening. Do you wish to know the story of HOW the Awakening series was started? Listen this -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4WgSLmpWGk

Here is a Day to Day timetable best to follow for self transformation -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/day-to-day-timetable

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शिव बाबा को कैसे याद करे?

प्रश्न: शिवबाबा को कहाँ, कैसे याद करें इसको स्पष्ट करें क्योंकि बाबा कभी कहते है मुझे ऊपर याद करो और कभी कहते मैं नीचे आ गया हूँ।
Question: How to Remember Shiv Baba? Please clarify because sometimes Baba tells in Murli that remember me in Paramdham (silent home) and sometimes tells that I have now come here. So where to remember and How?

उत्तर (Answer):

मुरली में बाबा ने स्पष्ट किया है कि जब बाबा साकार तन में प्रवेश हो सन्मुख मुरली चला रहे हैं तभी मुझे उस तन में याद करना है। पहले शरीर जरुर याद आएगा क्योंकि बड़ी चीज याद करने में सहज है और उस आत्मा का आधार है, उससे ही आत्मा के गुण व कर्तव्य साकार में प्रकट होते हैं परन्तु उस देह में उपस्थित देही याने आत्मा को ही वैल्यू देनी है क्योंकि करावनहार तो अविनाशी चैतन्य आत्मा ही है । बाबा ने कई बार यह भी स्पष्ट रूप से कहा है कि ब्रह्मा तन में अवतरित मुझ निराकार को याद करो क्योंकि देह को याद करने से विकर्म विनाश नहीं होगा उसमें स्थित ज्योति बिंदु परमात्मा को याद करने से ही होगा ।

राजयोग की सही विधि अनुसार हमें स्वयं को निराकार ज्योतिबिंदु आत्मा समझ उस निराकार ज्योतिबिंदु परम आत्मा (सभी आत्माओ के बाप व पिता) को स्नेहयुक्त होकर याद करना है। स्नेह अथवा निःस्वार्थ प्रेम ( unconditional love ) का ही दूसरा नाम याद है । जहाँ सच्चा प्रेम नहीं वहाँ सच्ची याद भी नहीं हो सकती। Refer: परमात्मा का परिचय

जब बाबा सम्मुख साकार में नहीं हैं तो उन्हें परमधाम में ही याद करना है । परमधाम तो है ही निराकारी दुनिया वहाँ तो निराकारी स्वरुप में ही याद करना है यह तो understood है।

सूक्ष्म वतन है आकरी दुनिया, फरिश्तों की दुनिया वहाँ पर सूक्ष्म शरीर में निराकार को याद करना हैं। Refer: तीन दुनिया

सार रूप में बाबा जब सम्मुख हैं तो साकार में निराकार को याद करें नहीं तो परमधाम में , सूक्ष्म वतन में आकार में निराकार को याद करें और परमधाम में डायरेक्ट निराकार को याद करें।

जिस स्वरुप में परमात्मा को याद करते हैं स्वयं को भी उसी चोले में अर्थात स्वरुप में देखना है परन्तु चाहे कोई भी चोला हो या सम्बन्ध हो उस चोले में उपस्थित चैतन्य आत्मा की स्मृति नहीं भूलनी चाहिए नहीं तो आत्मा का पक्का कनेक्शन परमात्मा से नहीं जुड़ेगा और याद का बल भी जैसा और जितना मिलना चाहिए वैसा और उतना नहीं मिलेगा । ओम शांति…

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28 March 2019 आज की मुरली से कविता (Today Murli Poem)

Aaj ki Gyan Murli se Ek Kavita – 28 March 2019. आज की मुरली से कविता. This is poem from today’s baba’s murli. To access old murli poems and more, visit the Daily Murli Poems page.

* मुरली कविता दिनांक 28.3.2019 *

कांटो के जंगल को बाप फूलों का बगीचा बनाते

नम्बर वन फैमिली प्लानिंग की विधि सिखलाते

फैमिली प्लानिंग का श्रेष्ठ शास्त्र गीता कहलाती

काम विकार पर जीत पाना गीता ही सिखलाती

केवल गीता ज्ञान ही पतित फैमिली को मिटाता

संसार को पावन फैमिली गीता का ज्ञान बनाता

बाप के प्लान से होता कांटों का जंगल खलास

सतयुगी बगीचे में हो जाता सुख शांति का वास

अपनी अवस्था को तुम एकरस अडोल बनाओ

किसी के भी नाम रूप में खुद को नहीं फंसाओ

भाई-भाई की भावना से दृष्टि को पावन बनाओ

रूहानी रूहाब जगाकर औरों को ज्ञान सुनाओ

बाप के प्यार के लिए रूहानी धंधे को अपनाओ

आसुरी निंद्रा में सोई हुई आत्माओं को जगाओ

बालक सो मालिकपन की स्मृति मन में जगाओ

स्वराज्य अधिकारी बन सर्व कर्मेन्द्रियाँ चलाओ

मनमनाभव के मंत्र को जीवन का अंग बनाओ

व्यर्थ से मुक्त होकर खजानों का अनुभव पाओ

परमात्म प्यार का झूला तुम सदा झूलते जाओ

उड़ती कला की मौज मनाकर श्रेष्ठ भाग्य पाओ

* ॐ शांति *

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Why to do Good Karma?

Every Action has equal & opposite reaction

Why to do Good Karma if in case the World Drama (life) is predestined? Here is the clarification on Shiv Baba’s Murli. Topic: Soul and World Drama Cycle.

Original Email Received

Om shanti. It is mentioned in murli that the drama is predestined and that every second is identical to the previous cycle. Then what is the significance of doing good karma if the future is already decided upon? Also who has decided the predestined drama?

Our Email Response/Answer

To: Tanvi & Everyone reading this

From: On behalf of Shiv Baba (The spiritual Godfather)

As explained in that Shrimat Audio response, the future is NOT predestined. The part is predestined. Think with your intellect (buddhi). How can God, who is so great to make this world this beautiful can create a Drama in which souls have no option? !

Definitely, there is an option whenever you do a Karma. Firstly – option to whether to DO or to NOT TO DO that karma. God has gifted us with intellect (buddhi) to decide what is right and wrong. So the future will depend on the present karma.

If you have already done a karma, the consequence is now destined. You must and will definitely get the fruit of THAT karma which is already done. This is a law. Every soul gets the fruit of its own past karma. It is not that the future is predestined. I hope the answer is now very clear.

It is simple. Just open the gates of mind and it is as simple to understand life.

* The Role of GOD *

The role of God is to awaken the souls from ignorance and save them from sorrow, from the old world. For this, he is called – ‘Liberator’. God is a helper of all souls, to decide and take ”better” decisions and thereby enjoy better consequences (fruit of karma). This is beautiful.

Many believe that God interferes in everything. In your life, in your family, in world. But no. God is aloof. He does not participate in the corporeal world at all. He is ‘incorporeal’. His role is subtle, hidden from your eyes. That is why we have this feeling of connection with God and we remember and pray him when in need. God is there in need and disappear in completeness.

This is a great secret just revealed to you. Because you were searching. Those who search, will get.

Also see this small PDF that answers questions on Soul, God and World Drama:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VnyW9FvhgGoflaRZxkmZMv-bXC7icm55/view?usp=sharing

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Questions on World Drama

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Q1: If the whole world except India will be drowned in the coming years, is it that only people of India will survive?

Answer:

No. India also will be transformed. Except Bharat continent (not India), all other continents will be submerged under the ocean . Bharat will face earthquakes and tsunamis and internal wars on other side. This way everyone will leave the body. When this happens, Bharat will be then cleaned (physically) by the heavy Rains. It is remembered in ancient scriptures. (When vinash happened, Shri Krishna appeared on a leaf floating on ocean.’ The shape of Bharat continent is of a peapal leaf.

Watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WGKCRSixT8

Q2: when one says awaken the God within yourself, is it wrong because you said God is not omnipresent and calling him so is an insult to him?

Answer:

In last email, it is explained- God is the father of all souls. Creator of heaven. We all are devotees (bhagat). If one says – God is everywhere – then whom do they call and remember. If he was omnipresent, there would be no sorrow. They call him – Ocean of love . Listen from Shiv baba’s murli directly in this 1965 record:

https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/bapdada-sakar-murli-class-1965-with-english-translation (original recording)

Q3: As soul is imperishable, is it possible to become liberated from the cycle of life and permanently stay in paramdhan as said by many yogis??

Answer:

Soul is imperishable. And that is the reason why sou cannot and never by merged in the supreme soul. Yogis of Bharat thinks that our souls will be merged in Nirwan and we shall not take rebirth. Then soul becomes perishable. Then drama would not make sense. Drama is created on basis of our Karma . As one’s karma in this life, he will take the rebirth. No one can live without doing anything, even for a second.

Refer: Who am I? – Self realisation

Souls are eternal actors in this Eternal World Drama. Hence we all must exist forever. Even when we are in Paramdham (while waiting for our part to start), we exist as points of light.

Tanvi ji, do follow all above points of Gyan and links . Watch video and audio murli. Here are useful links .

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What is Murli: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli

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Namaste

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ब्रह्माकुमारी और कुमार के लिए (Guidelines in Hindi)

* ब्रह्मा कुमार-कुमारियों के लिए आवश्यक दिशा निर्देश * Guidelines (divine rules) to follow in Hindi. Day-to-Day life rules to be followed by Brahmakumari and Brahmakumar (Godly students).

यह सभी ब्रह्माकुमार व कुमारी के प्रति ही नहीं, लेकिन सभी आत्माओ के प्रति सुबह भावना पूर्वक परमपिता शिव बाबा की और से विशेष वर्तमान समय अनुसार यह गाइडलाइन्स दे रहे है।

आशा है आप इसके अनुसार अपने जीवन में परिवर्तन लाएंगे। सभी को SHARE जरूर करे।…

1. अपने दिन का आरम्भ परमात्मा की याद से करें अमृतवेला योग तथा नुमाशाम योग कभी मिस न करें। 24 घंटे मे कम से कम 4 घंटे याद मे रहने का पुरूषार्थ अवश्य करें। समय की समीपता को देखते हुए याद का पुरूषार्थ अति आवश्यक है । Use: RajYog resources

2. प्रतिदिन कम से कम 30 मिनट मौन का अभ्यास करें। मौन की शक्ति का विशेष अनुभव करें ।

3. प्रति दिन ईश्वरीय ग्यान की मुरली अवश्य सुनें अथवा पढ़े तथा अपना अमूल्य समय ग्यान के मनन चिन्तन मे व्यतीत करें। Refer: What is Murli?

4. सम्पर्क संबंध मे आने वाली आत्माओं के साथ परमात्म-ज्ञान संबंधी चर्चा करें। सभी को ज्ञान-दान अवश्य देना है।

5. प्रतिदिन शुद्ध भोजन व शुद्ध जल का प्रयोग करें । Refer: Yogi’s Diet (article)

6. प्रतिदिन कम से कम तीन लोगों के चेहरे पर मुस्कान लाने की कोशिश करें। खुशियों का प्रभू प्रसाद सबको बांटे ।

7. व्यर्थ बातों मे अपनी ऊर्जा व्यर्थ न गँवाए ।

8. अतीत की परेशानियों को भूल जायें। अतीत की गलतियों को अपने साथियों को याद न दिलायें। अतीत के कारण अपना वर्तमान नष्ट न करें ।

9. अनुभव कीजिये कि जीवन एक पाठशाला है और आप यहां सीखने के लिये आये हैं, जो समस्याएं आप यहाँ देखते हैं, वे पाठ्यक्रम का हिस्सा हैं ।

10. परमात्मा की याद मे भोजन बनाएं तथा परमात्मा शिव पिता को भोग स्वीकार कराने के पश्चात परमात्मा की याद मे भोजन स्वीकार करें। इससे आत्मा को विशेष शक्ति का अनुभव होगा ।

11. दूसरों से ईर्ष्या व घृणा करने में अपना समय व ऊर्जा बर्बाद न करें। सर्व आत्माओं को अपना समझे और उनकी कमजोरियों पर ध्यान न दें बल्कि उनको अपना स्नेह व सहयोग देकर उनकी कमियों को मिटाने का प्रयास करें ।

12. आपको जितना समय मिले उसे परमात्मा की याद मे , स्व पुरूषार्थ मे तथा सेवा मे सफल करें। Refer: Four Subjets

13. अपने जीवन की तुलना दूसरों से न करें। आप विशेष आत्मा हैं। आपको विशेष पार्ट मिला है अतः अपने पार्ट पर ध्यान देकर अपना भाग्य बनाएँ।

14. भूल होने पर तुरंत शिवबाबा से क्षमा माँगे तथा आगे के लिए कभी भूल न करने की प्रतिज्ञा करें ।

15. बाप समान क्षमाशील बन भूल करने वालों को क्षमा करना।

16. समय का सदुपयोग करना है… समय गंवाना अर्थात अपना भाग्य गंवाना अतः समय के एक एक क्षण का महत्व समझना है। Class: समय का महत्व

17. समस्या स्वरूप नही समाधान स्वरूप बनें। हर समस्या को शांति पूर्वक सुलझाने का प्रयास करना है। परिस्थिति आने पर तंग नही होना है ।

18. स्व प्रसंशा की इच्छा कभी नही रखनी है बल्कि दूसरों की प्रसंशा कर उन्हें आगे बढ़ाना है। निस्वार्थ भाव से सेवा करनी है ।

प्रतिदिन परमात्मा का दिल से धन्यवाद अवश्य करें ।

* ओम शांति *

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27 March 2019 आज की मुरली से कविता (Today Murli Poem)

Aaj ki Gyan Murli se Ek Kavita – 27 March 2019. आज की मुरली से कविता. This is poem from today’s baba’s murli. To access old murli poems and more, visit the Daily Murli Poems page.

* मुरली कविता दिनांक 27.03.2019 *

बच्चों वानप्रस्थी बनकर वाणी से परे हो जाओ

घर वापसी के लिए तुम पावन खुद को बनाओ

बच्चों संभलकर रहना दृष्टि से धोखा ना खाना

आत्मभान में रहकर बाप को याद करते जाना

भाई भाई की दृष्टि का अभ्यास हर रोज बढ़ाना

एकान्त में बैठकर तुम अपने आपसे बतियाना

काम महाशत्रु से बच्चों तुम्हें रहना है खबरदार

आंखें क्रिमिनल बनाकर बिगाड़ेगा हर संस्कार

खुद को पावन बनाने की लगाओ मन में लगन

हर विकार को भस्म करो जलाकर योग अगन

पावन बनने की बात पर संसार में हंगामा होता

विकार के कारण ही अबलाओं पर जुल्म होता

बाप समझाते मैं आया बच्चों को पावन बनाने

योगबल से बच्चों की वानप्रस्थ अवस्था जमाने

स्वर्ग का वर्सा पाने बच्चे बाप के पास ही आते

वर्सा पाना है तो क्यों ना पावन खुद को बनाते

पवित्रता बनने के हुक्म की नहीं करना अवज्ञा

बापदादा के आगे करो पवित्र रहने की प्रतिज्ञा

ड्रामा की भावी समझकर निश्चिन्त होते जाओ

विनाश होने से पहले पैगाम बाप का पहुंचाओ

बाबा शब्द की याद से जब सेवा करते जाओगे

सच्चे सच्चे सेवाधारी बच्चों तब ही कहलाओगे

दिल से बाबा कहकर खुशी अविनाशी पाओगे

दिमाग से बाबा कहकर स्थाई खुशी ना पाओगे

परमात्मा रूपी शमा पर बच्चों फिदा हो जाओ

सम्पूर्ण समर्पण होकर सच्चे परवाने कहलाओ

* ॐ शांति *

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Husband’s Anger Problem

Another Husband Wife relationship guidance. Here a sister writes about her husband having anger problem where suddenly mood changes. So how to handle the situation – should I heal that soul with good vibrations or should we take divorce?

Original Email Received

Good morning Sister/brother,

My husband is aggressive and short tempered. He has no control over himself when he gets angry. Other than that he is very good. But because of his sudden mood changes, I am always in constant fear and have to talk very carefully and be very calm.

Is it wise to stay in a relationship even after knowing the other person wouldn’t change and keep hurting? I keep thinking of divorce frequently, I try telling myself to be/think positive and things would change. I have waited with patience for 3 years and I have been hoping for a change in his behavior. Please suggest me a solution.

Thanks & Regards,

Our Email Response + Guidance

To: Everyone reading this

From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfather’s University)

Dear Divine Sister

Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response.

You are already listening the Awakening TV series. However, for this, we suggest you to save below 2 links which are about the Awakening series

1. Awakening series All episodes (section wise): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm

2. Awakening Audio episodes (Selected best): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes

NOW,

To your question ->

Seeing your situation, giving you personal advice. You are educated, so you can sustain yourself without a need of someone else. Usually, sisters and mothers have to tolerate because of being financially dependent.

Power to tolerate is needed. But it is understood that each soul is different. This power is not seen in the majority nowadays.!

Hence the only solution remains is to abandon the relationship – that is divorce.

However, this is not the best solution. The better solution is to heal the relationship in a spiritual way. So instead make convince your husband to sit and listen to the awakening series on ”Relationship” which is VERY beneficial for you both. Shortly saying that each and every talk guides the family relationship – How to manage, tolerate, love and transform…

Awakening series on ‘Relationship’

How to have Happy relationships (Hindi)

(video): Healing Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWvWT3zdXa8F

ADVICE: Do watch the series and videos with your husband together. They will surely like the way of explanation.

However, the key is with you. Always be maturated, tolerating and accept him. Love begins with acceptance. Healing begins with loving. You can watch this vdo also: Settle your karmic account.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPY1-biTzhs

All Souls are unique and are loveable in God’s eyes. If explained with love and wisdom, anyone can be brought to the right path. Weakness can be ‘transformed’ into virtues. We all have virtues and today we all are some or other weakness. So what is needed?

Acceptance is needed. Helping each other, being a support and guide with a feeling of true and unconditional love. This is the direction of GOD.

We also welcome you to please come and know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us (introduction)

God has come. If you are following Awakening series, you would know the task of God and our relationship with him. Please please come and know your Spiritual father who is waiting for you.

Series on GOD’s revelations

*About GOD – Supreme Soul

Hope you are completely satisfied with this response. The main aim of this was to bring you near to God, your Spiritual father. Come now he says.

Do visit and watch given 2 series and 2 videos. Do email us about your progress in 15 days.

Need anything? Contact us again.

namaste

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Why 21 days Yog Bhatti?

This is clarification on the 21 days Yog Bhatti – the Purpose (why is done), procedure and method to take most benefit from the Bhatti. Please read this if you wish to know about anything related to Bhatti and Yog programs. Very important to know for new students of Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vidhyalay. So SHARE this to your connections.

Original Email Received

I want to start 21 days bhatti for one of my family member victory in court cases. He has been struggling in court cases since last 12 years but no hope is seeing to get rid of it. What is the process and which swaman I need to take for this bhatti.

Our Email Response + Guidance

To: Everyone reading this

From: On behalf of Shiv Baba (the Supreme father of all Souls)

This is the response letter to your email. Please read with ATTENTION. Save the given useful links.

There are 2 things you need to know.

1. Whatever happening in one’s life is a result or creation of his own past karma.

2. Positive thinking helps to remain unaffected from the results of our karma.

The Bhatti is to become Soul conscious. This is the first step towards learning RajYog. If one takes the 7 days course, the Bhatti is required to become ”introverted” towards the true self (Soul) and the supreme soul (God). Bhatti is done to also increase the power of concentration of mind (Ekagrata ki shakti). After the course in which one learns that the self is a Soul, the Yog bhatti gives opportuity to experience soul consciousness and this further develops natural feeling of Soul consciousness.

It is usually done for 21 days as guided by Shiv baba himself in Sakar Murlis as 2 to 3 weeks are required for any soul to master Soul consciousness. This all begins by knowledge of the self, later one has to renounce the thoughts of outer world and go within. This is a process which s powerful soul can master in one second and some takes 14 to 21 days.

There is no connection of Bhatti with the result of karma. The only solution is: ”To explain them the universal law of karma. How we shape our life. And thus tell them to now create a good karma, whose fruit (result) will also be good.”

This is the only good way. What is a good karma? Knowledge of karma understanding is written on the page: KARMA – Law and Living

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You can surely do the Bhatti to make the mind powerful. This can help indirectly. A powerful mind can create miracles. If you think positive about that court case and give power to that Soul – this can work.

But keep in mind – Yog is NOT for such personal benefits. Yog is a supreme method or connection with our Spiritual father through which we the soul become equal to that Supreme soul. Please come and learn more here.

You can learn RajYog from home also. Use these guided commentaries ->

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namaste

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Bodiless Stage

This is an article on highest stage of Yog -Videhi (Bodiless – a stage where Soul forgets its body). Meditation means an intellectual connection with the Supreme soul. For this, first we consider ourself as a point of light (soul). Learn RajYog meditation

There are many states of consciousness that a yogi can aspire to in meditation. One very powerful one is the bodiless state. This state has nothing to do with actually dying, or a near death experience (NDE), although the feeling is quite similar to a NDE, but it is more like a light and weightless state of consciousness. This is a state of being beyond the pull of the physical sensations of the body. You could say it was a bit like being a spaceman out in space, with that feeling of being unlimited and beyond.

Since we spend so long in the body, it only makes sense that from time to time, we wonder what it would be like to be detached and away from the pull of the body. When we sleep we have the experience of the Soul consciousness, of being free and not being trapped in the body. It is this sense of detachment that enables the body to rest and repair, and without sleep the body would become sick. Silence and sleep are healing for both the mind and the body.

If one is not totally spiritual, the best way one can describe this is perhaps to imagine that a lion was chasing after you and you had to run for your life! In that moment, you would not give a damn whether you were looking good, or about the weight or size of your body, or your health or lack of it, the quality of your knees and feet, the titles and medals the body has received. You would simply want to get out of there as fast as possible and all that would not matter in the slightest!

You would be totally beyond it all in a second, for the mere reason that you had to save your skin in that moment. Because you are certainly not interested in saving the labels and id’s. Saving your life in this sense means saving your soul! So indeed, it is ironic, that we try to save the soul by trying to save the body! But when we understand that we are spiritual beings then we know that the soul never dies.

It is not just fear that makes us bodiless!! Or in worldly language paralyses us. It can be joy too. If for example you know you are going on some exciting adventure trip you would wake up early in the morning to get ready to head off in time. Whereas for work… Ahh… Umm… not so eager for that!! Excitement and joy and a sense of purpose also makes us bodiless, meaning we forget all the ailments and limitations of the body. It is as though our mind has shifted into another zone of consciousness.

The bodiless state means to go beyond all forms of impressions of the body. At that time there is nothing of this body or the world that I am taking pleasure from. So if I am beautiful, it doesn’t matter. If I am rich, that also doesn’t mean much. If I am educated and talented, then again, it’s of no use. I am purely and solely interested in the soul and the experience of the light. I do not even take pleasure from the fact that I am a wise soul or that I have been a practicing yogi for so long.

The bodiless state is not dependent on any past experience. It is a current and live experience of the soul. Not based on any past achievement or desirous of future ones. It is to be experienced in the here and now.

The bodiless state is a taste of what is to come after death of the body. This is why it is so important for us to practice being soul conscious and bodiless as a stage of meditation. The bodiless state is one of weightlessness, not physically but more of the mind, that is, the physical body stops pulling on the mind and we experience that lightness. Not light-headed, but light as being beyond any burden.

What is death at the end of the day? That state of physical dis-connection between the soul and the body. If we have practiced and we rehearsed several times, then the fear is over. This is how we create a new habit. In the same manner, as we learn to keep going up and beyond, we become free. Free from fears and worries and concerns about what the final moment may bring. It is a bit like sitting an exam paper at school. We become stressed out just by the thought of that exam! But if we have some practice runs, we call them mocks, then that takes away our fears because now that experience is familiar for when we have to sit that exam. So we are prepared.

The bodiless experience is a very sweet one. In this state, the soul has a clear picture of itself. Very much like looking into a clean and perfect mirror. All one can see is the total beauty and splendour of the soul with the fragrance of virtues.

The depth of the experience will depend on how keen you really are and how willing you are to let go of all the strings that hold you down here! Yes, we would call these the strings of attachment, of which there are many tying us down.

Meditation really is the key to this experience. Bringing a space of silence to the mind, giving the mind an opportunity for some down time away from activity and the thoughts of action. It is totally a ‘being’ state.

So what is that bodiless experience like? What can we do to prepare ourselves for this experience?

1) Sit in a comfortable and quiet place and give yourself some space and a good amount of uninterrupted time.

2) Be sure that you have set everything aside, especially those distractions, before taking this time for yourself. E.g. put that phone away! Inform those who live with you that you will be busy the next 30 minutes. Get a ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign for your door.

3) Create a mental and physical space in which you can experience you true internal state of… just ‘being’.

4) Take some deep breathes, create a regular and smooth rhythm with your breathing.

5) Create a powerful thought in the conscious state of affirmations, practice “I am” — “I am love”, “I am peace”, “I am joy”, “I am light”. Relax (listen Relaxing nature sounds) and allow your mind to float up above to a higher dimension of consciousness.

6) Feel the consciousness of the soul rising…

7) Experience the lightness of mind and the lightness of being… there is no pull of the body at all.

8) It feels like removing some heavy clothing – our body is like a dress, a costume through which we experience the physical world. Let the thoughts about it go by.

9) You find yourself in a timeless zone… there is the feeling of being unlimited… safe and secure… at peace…

10) You experience that you… simply are…

It’s Time… to experience inner freedom by becoming bodiless. Go beyond. Become Light. Just Be.

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